Psychology

Leggo My Ego! — Our Infinite Obsession With Ego

Leggo My Ego! — Our Infinite Obsession With Ego

“Ego dissolution is a thing a lot of people get totally obsessed about. Everyone talks about it as if it’s the holy grail of spiritual achievement. Spiritual enlightenment, in all its glory, is touted as passing directly through the death of the ego — the freeing of one from the simple suffering of this life as an individual constantly fighting for assertion.

But what happens if we’re to actually dissolve the ego? What happens if we’re to truly lose our sense of self?

If the ego disappears, then the animal instincts and the social conditioning will take over. We’ll become wild animals chained by the shame and guilt inherent to the moralistic programmings we all inherit from our beloved ancestors. But wait — animality, shame, guilt — aren’t those the things we’re trying to fix through spiritual pursuits? Aren’t these what spiritual liberation is all about?”

Journey into Self-Love — Just What is Self-Love Anyway?

Journey into Self-Love —  Just What is Self-Love Anyway?

Self-love is the label I give to a deep and meaningful understanding of who we are. It’s acceptance and allowance of the truths, longings, and desires that live within us. And it includes all of them, with no discrimination — regardless of liking or preference, for judgment and selection are ultimately the domain of the ego. Self-love is never about judgment, it’s always about allowance and acceptance — even allowance and acceptance of the judgments themselves, should they be manifested. Self-love accepts the ego for what it is, yet ego-love constantly endeavours to repress the self. Which seems more desirable in the end? Who seems to be playing a fair game?”

Does the Happiness in Your Life Depend On the Quality of Your Thoughts?

Does the Happiness in Your Life Depend On the Quality of Your Thoughts?

"Happiness is but a higher harmony of the being as a whole - where the thoughts, emotions, physical and mental health are all in satisfactory balance. Thoughts are not a cause of happiness but a manifestation of it - just like everything else in the body, physical or otherwise."